Monday, December 30, 2024

Happy Christmastide



Not only two posts within a week of each other, but three posts in a month.
Shocking, I know.

It is, however, Christmastide after all .... something that is rarely observed in recent decades and all but forgotten.

Recent generations rush to get Christmas decorations up before Thanksgiving and, in many cases, rush to pack them up the day after Christmas.
But, in my world, Christmas Day is just the beginning...the beginning of Christmastide.

Christmastide (also known as Christide or Twelvetide) is the 12-day period beginning December 25th and ending January 5th.  (Start singing - in your head please - The Twelve Days of Christmas.) 
While it is, technically, a season of the liturgical year in most Christian churches, it was also, historically, a period of hospitality and celebration with Christmas Day being Day One.
There were religious services, yes, but it was also a secular matter as well with parties and feasts, gift-giving and general merry-making.

Perhaps due to my father's strong evangelical Lutheran background, our family followed the old ways growing up.
Our tree was not put up until Christmas Eve (or Christmas "Adam" - the day before Christmas Eve) and gifts were opened on Christmas Eve after the evening Christmas Eve service.
Christmas Day was a morning church service and then a more formal dinner.
And then...then the round robins began.
We would visit my great grandmother and great aunts on my father's side, then all the aunts and uncles on my mother's side, and a few close family friends - and they, in turn, would come to visit us. 
Each day saw a new visit or new visitors.

Those days are long gone, but I still think of Christmas as a season rather than a day and I (stubbornly) refuse to give in to the notion that Christmas is over and done with on the 25th. 
My decorations and lights will stay up for several weeks yet and, yes, on occasion, I will listen to Christmas music or indulge in a favorite Christmas movie.
I also continue with a few Christmas projects.

This year, I finally pinned and laced "Merry Olde Christmas," a design by Lori Brechlin of Notforgotten Farm which I stitched two years ago.


I finished it in this metal ornament frame because it was on hand.
Jury's still out on whether it will stay there but, for now, I'm calling it done.


I also stitched and finished a new seasonal insert for my hanging clock:


This is called "November Ornament" (I think?) and is a free design from Birgit Tolman of The Wishing Thorn.
I had wanted to do a Santa for it but haven't settled on a design that will work well with the dimensions of the clock case.

I also finished hooking my Stag rug - a pattern by Lori Rippey of Primitives by Lori.
It took me a ridiculous amount of time to finish hooking it, and I am not thrilled with my color plan/wool choices.  I suspect Mummy D. was expecting a photo of the completely finished rug but it has been commandeered by Liza Bean and has not even made it through the steaming process.


I also treated myself to a Christmas read.


This book was outside of my typical genres but a fellow blogger (who no longer blogs unfortunately) recommended it to me. 
Her recommendation turned out to be a beautiful gift.

Ms. Silva imaginatively recreates the inspiration behind Dickens' beloved A Christmas Carol.  Although fiction, Silva seems to channel Dickens himself and uncannily recreates 19th-century London and the streets Dickens perambulated during the six-week period of the writing of his famous tale. (Well, not that I would actually know what 19th-century London or the streets of London looked like but, in my head I think I do. 😉).
Whimsical and charming - and utterly believable...I definitely recommend for a heart-warming holiday read.

And, finally, for "Sissy"...because you asked.



I hope 2025 brings renewal, sees your hopes fulfilled, and makes your heart glad.

12 comments:

jabblog said...

Liza Bean is so pretty and looks most settled.
Your granddaughter (?) in the snow looks so happy.
Our Christmas decorations will not come down until Twelfth Night. Some people round here leave their outdoor lights up for several weeks into the new year. It brightens the dark days.
I wish you peace, light and good health for 2025.

Prims By The Water said...

Your cross stitch pieces are wonderful. So must your hooked rug if Liza Bean took it over. I dont take my Christmas down either until after the 5th. Will probably take mine down next weekend since I have to go back to work. Happy New Years Eve. Janice

Saundra said...

You write so eloquently may I suggest you start your own novel. Your travels, education and life experience is so diverse you'd have no problem choosing a topic of intrigue to captivate a reader.
Love what I can see of the Stag rug so when Liza Bean gets up to go eat take another snap for later.
My but Amelia has grown and is adorable.

Rugs and Pugs said...

Ditto what Saundra said about your writings!!!
My mom always put the tree up on Christmas eve. Sadly I do not have the pleasant childhood memories of Christmas that you do. (I could write a novel on that!)
I normally start un-decorating after the 1st, but this year I think I am going to enjoy it for a bit more.
I love the Merry Old Christmas finish. So sweet . . . and speaking of sweet, that granddaughter of yours is just too precious. She sure has a lot of hair ;-)
Happy New Year's eve, dear friend!!!
xoxo

Betty said...

Love this post. Your Christmastides of the past sound so wonderful. and enlightening (really) I was not familiar with this tradition. Your stitching presentations also blew me away. Perfectly placed and I, as the others, am lusting to see that rug so maybe 4 posts in a month? We can handle it. How fortunate you are to have a wee grand to share. Oh and I'm an avid reader so I appreciate the recommends! Happy New Year!

NMK said...

I have heard about German families waiting to put their Cmas trees up on Cmas Eve , your story is very interesting and love how you would visit all your relatives and friends , wish that tradition continued .
Love your pretty cross stitching projects and how you finished them . You old clock case is wonderful !
Can't wait to see your hooked rug , but your Kitty looks so comfy !
Your Grand Daughter is adorable !!!! Hope you see her often , just love being with my little ones , they just grow up too fast , so enjoy every minute !!!

Happy , Healthy New Year !!!!

Maureen said...

Your post today felt like finding a little gift that was missed behind the tree. Best wishes to you and your dear family in the new year

yaya said...

Happy New Year Robin! I was happy to see another post from you! I hope this new year is a good one for you. I have a hard time wrapping my head around the numbers: 2025...seems unreal to me for some reason. I used to rush to take down my decorations. Probably because of my work schedule and raising 4 boys it just made sense to get it done. These days I like to let it linger and slowly take it down. The snowmen go up for a few weeks then. The tree will stay up until the end of next week too. I like your tradition of celebrating this season. It's over much to fast! Have a wonderful rest of this week and now on to a new year!

Primitive Stars said...

Evening Sweet Crow, here we are New Year’s Eve already, I cannot believe 2025 is tomorrow….. I leave my tree up well into the new year as I love the twinkle of lights while still early darkness falls. Never knew about Christmastide, thank you…Your tree is very sweet… .. love your cross stitching in the frames, your amazing work once again…. Liza Bean is very pretty, how cute on your star hooked rug….. Adorable Granddaughter, she looks so happy…. Your post is like a gift, I love my visits with you, All the best in 2025… Love and hugs Francine.

marly said...

She is growing up so quickly. Hope you all had a nice Christmas. My family did the same thing during the holidays. Every night between the 25th and 1st, a different aunt hosted a party. No dinners, just lots of good food and treats to enjoy buffet style. Greek at one home, Polish at another, Italian at two, Slovak another, and sort of Russian. Did we wear sweat pants and comfy tops? Nope. Men in dress shirts and ties, women in their party dresses and best costume jewelry. And those fancy slippers. They have all been gone for many years, and I feel lost. At least Carole put out a spread of the goodies and punch and together we felt a tiny hold on tradition. This year, with only four adults and two children left, I made baked sliders and mac/cheese, a few cookies to take. Walked in to her house, no one bothered to contribute a thing, dishes and flatware were not set out, I had to ask if they had napkins. Sorry for the length of this comment, but your memories of prior year Christmas set me off on a journey. Happy new year girl.

Shrimpton and Perfect said...

I love to hear about your family traditions. Saundra is right you do have a way with words and create some dazzling images, I feel you could easily write a novel. We didn't really have any family traditions at Christmas, but perhaps in our new home this year we can start some. You never know I might be graced with a grand child by then. Such joy.

Dicky Bird said...

I remember the "round robin" visits....I miss that!
Happy New Year!